How I spent my summer: part 3 – The Kitchen

My Grandparents had a house in Dale Avenue that I absolutely adored. After my Grandpa’s passing, I found myself thinking about this house a lot. How it looked. The colours. Where the furniture was placed. How I would try to roller skate up the incredibly steep hill in the garden and skip on the lower patio. I mainly remember the living room, where I would sit on Gran’s beautiful ciel blue, chippendale replica recliner chair. The chairs came as a matching pair, but it was Gran’s that I would sit on to watch the television. Quite a privilege since Gran liked to keeps things neat and clean, a way of being that a young child often isn’t!

As I reminisced about this house, I was drawn to drive by it one day. I briefly sat outside it in my car and thought about these memories. I obviously didn’t go so far as to peer inside but I was pleased to see the monoblock driveway my Grandpa carefully laid one summer as well as the rot iron gates leading to the back garden are still intact.

Why am I telling you all this? When it came to painting the kitchen, I had come across Gran and Grandpa’s ciel blue Denby candle sticks and clock that once stood in the Dale Avenue living room. The colour was so striking and prompted me to remember this old house. I just knew at that point that I wanted to replicate this colour in our kitchen.

Previously, the kitchen had been the same colour as the rest of the downstairs. I lightish pink colour that matched in with tiles. Over the many years of stove top cooking, the tiles had dulled in colour and the walls were looking tired. I wanted a colour that would be inviting and happy, but different to the rest of the downstairs. I didn’t really think about the tiles or the colour of the worktops. Only that the blue of the candle sticks felt right.

During this process I had to disappear to London for a couple days and my husband kindly went to BnQ to get some tester pots. On my return home we found one colour ‘blue thistle’ was way too dark while matt ‘ciel’ was too light. What to do… Well, after taking another trip we decided ciel might be the best way to go since a darker colour might appear a too dark once it was up in the whole kitchen. We have always gone for matt paint as neither of us particularly like sheen or sparkle, but the ciel silk finish seemed to be more of a perfect match (based on the colour in my minds eye of course!). And that was it decided. Out with the credit card where I also purchased a roller!

It took me a whole day to transform the kitchen. I wanted to make this a neat and tidy job, but remembered my first painting effort in the flat had been a disaster. This time I did my research and watched professional painter videos to make sure my technique was sound. Brush painting was fine but painting with the roller was hard work and I didn’t seem to be able to get quite as even a coverage as the man in the video. I guess this takes practice. In any case, painting the room with three coats gave it the perfect finish overall.

Now when I walk in the room I am reminded of my Grandparent’s Dale Avenue house and it makes me smile. They were so lively in that house – Grandpa working in the garden and Gran hand washing clothes in the sink. I am pleased to have a happy memory of the two of them now represented in my home.

Before:

After:

So, how did I achieve this look?

Well, I recommend watching some painting videos. Here was the series I watched and attempted to replicate: https://youtu.be/3HSuqwi_CY8

Ciel silk finish: https://www.diy.com/departments/colours-premium-ciel-silk-emulsion-paint-2-5l/183714_BQ.prd

Wall roller: https://www.diy.com/departments/harris-id-vanquish-9-roller/203485_BQ.prd

Paint brushes (Grandpa already had a set of Harris paint brushes)

Sheet to cover the floor

Paper towels in case of any spills!

How I spent my summer: part 2 – to scrape or not to scrape

Fairly early on in the decorating process, my husband and I had decided on a woodland theme for the house. We love designs that are a little more unique but still wanted to have an elegant place to live. One way we had thought of achieving this look was to strip much of the paint work back to wood.

Now, this wasn’t just about aesthetics but the many years of spending time at my Grandparents house had highlighted a number of issues. Part of the wall that was removed from the living room to make the space more open plan still remains. We now affectionately call it ‘the island’. Well, the island has always been a dumping ground for keys, mail, cups – you name it. But, when Gran and Grandpa bought the house, the island’s pine had been painted with white gloss, I guess to make the space more neutral and attractive for potential buyers. That didn’t suit my Grandparents decor, so it was quickly repainted with green gloss and later matt reddy-pink (I can’t quite describe the colour but see the pictures below). Grandpa had repainted this island several times as the paint often chipped away revealing the green and white below. Several table mats had been put down to protect the paintwork but keys always seem to miss the mat…

The thought of repainting one section for years on end or leaving it a ghastly state was not something I was prepared to do. The solution — strip it back to the original pine, stain it and make it an intentional feature of the overall aesthetic. What a great idea! NOT!

My husband and I spent 4 whole days and very long nights with toxic paint stripper, paint scrapers and sanding painting trying to remove the years of paint work. And the real kicker was the final layer. Thick black, glossy paint that stuck to our fingers, nails and wooden floors! We tried all different techniques to get this paint off, including different strippers and the cling film method. I will pop a list of products below.

Finally, the majority of the paint was off and while the wood below wasn’t the best quality, staining it with medium oak meant it matched with the flooring. And we have tested its durability several times over the past 5 weeks with power tools, screws, nails, cups and keys all plonked on it and the island is perfectly intact.

Unfortunately, the original doors were made from cheap, white mdf. We only discovered this halfway through the stripping process. Instead we decided to get some pine plywood cut to size at B&Q, attach the original hinges, stain to match and voila!

Except, under the stairs was the same painted pine and now the island and this woodwork were horribly mismatched. I had toyed with just painting under the stairs but that seemed like cheating! And what colour? At this point, the banister was white while the rest of the woodwork was the reddy-pink colour. Out with the stripper once more!

This actually didn’t take as long, perhaps because we had the technique down or perhaps because it hadn’t been painted quite as many times. Unfortunately, the grooves made it extremely difficult to remove all remnants of the black, but it gives it a more worn, effect overall. Not a perfect job, but I think it works well!

Original look

Stripped but not stained

So how did we achieve this look? Well here is a list of items we purchased from B&Q but don’t be fooled by online articles or YouTube videos. This is a disgusting and messy job. Not one for the faint hearted!

Paint stripper: https://www.diy.com/departments/nitromors-all-purpose-paint-varnish-remover-2l/258901_BQ.prd

White spirit: https://www.diy.com/departments/b-q-white-spirit-2l/36047_BQ.prd

Combination shave hook: https://www.diy.com/departments/diall-combination-shave-hook/219870_BQ.prd

Stripping knife: https://www.diy.com/departments/diall-4-stripping-knife/203488_BQ.prd

Electric sander: https://www.diy.com/departments/black-decker-corded-55w-230v-detail-sander-ka161bc-gb/314993_BQ.prd

Cling film

Soap!

Medium oak indoor wood stain: https://www.diy.com/departments/colours-medium-oak-matt-decking-stain-2-5l/127147_BQ.prd

Pine ply (thickest we could get) https://www.diy.com/departments/plywood-sheet-th-9mm-w-1220mm-l-2440mm/1696252_BQ.prd

How I spent my summer: part 1

So, once again I have been on hiatus but this time I chose to take time away all the while knowing I wanted to write this series. I won’t be focusing on research or writing, but something equally important. In my last post I had written about losing my Grandpa and since then my husband and have lost 4 other close members of our family. It has been one of the most traumatic summers I have ever experienced but in the face of it all we have charged on ahead and tried to make the best out of so much grief.

I inherited my Grandfather’s house – a final amazing gift I will never be able to repay. Through this time I have dedicated myself to renovating and redecorating, carrying out all of the changes my Grandfather suggested just over a year ago. I remember him taking me a tour of the house saying ‘that needs to be changed’ while pointing at the bathroom, ‘don’t keep this carpet. Wooden floors would be much nicer’ as he pointed to the red and cream patterned livingroom carpet. And a final reminder ‘don’t keep everything. Sell what’s worth selling to pay for the work I couldn’t do!’ Well, I couldn’t bring myself to sell any of the items, but I have donated to charity in their honour, which I hope Grandpa would approve of.

My husband and I gave ourselves 6 weeks. While the sky was falling around us, this was the one thing we had control over. The one thing we could see rising out of the ashes of our grief. Personally, I have given myself 6 weeks not focus on writing, or research 24-hours-a-day but to go to work, do my 8 hours and then come home and scrape, paint, build, garden and book a team of joiners, electricians, plumbers and engineers to rip out and put in all those things that transform the house from something suitable for the elderly to something better suited to a young working couple. As I looked over the work we have done, I was so sad to not look over and see my grandparents wine coloured chairs. Not to sit in the leather High back dining chair to watch episodes of Star Trek and not to move over to the dining table under the stairs to eat ham sandwiches and drink tea. But, while the house gives me these sad memories, I know that these changes were necessary to ensure the house does not become a meloncholy museum piece.

So, here is how it looked just six weeks ago before we started all the work. I will try to go room by room describing the decorating process and hopefully this will give some ideas or handy hints for anyone trying to redecorate the home of a recently departed loved one.

Unfortunately, I didn’t always remember to do a before picture for all the rooms (and some of the rooms Grandpa probably wouldn’t want me show since it was quite finished off to his usual standard). But, I can describe what has been done so hopefully that will give a good idea. Below is the downstairs living room and dining area. Not quite my tastes, but the decorating, carpets and furniture were top quality. Something I have tried to maintain as we carried out our own renovations.